To imagine is to let go…..

Posted By on January 18, 2012

On January 22nd we will have our first Intention circle. I have asked all participants to come prepared to share their vision or goals for their various projects. In preparation I too have been contemplating what my focus will be for this circle. In my case, I am multi-tasking; both visioning for the circle and for myself. I walk in two worlds as I explore our collective world and my individual goals. There is of course cross over. One of my goals is clearly to host/facilitate this circle. Whenever doing a circle I look for tidbits to support the topic. I pray and ask for the right book to fall off my shelf and to open at the very page where the juicy inspiration rests. Yesterday that book was Creating with Others by Shaun McNiff. The page it fell open to had important information on the art of contemplation. Very timely reminders were provided by Shaun McNiff who says that To imagine is to let go……

After reading his thoughts on contemplation, I was reminded of the difference between “thinking” and the use of prayer and contemplation to arrive at decisions. The first suggest that the answers reside within our mind, the second acknowledges that we live in an abundant universe and that the answers can find their way to us through many means. Given this, I would like to suggest that, rather than “thinking” about your vision or project and how to put in it two or three sentences; you reframe this process. In other words, in place of “thinking” our way towards the important answers we seek, we can instead use prayer and contemplation. So the question ( i.e. what is the focus of my project? how will I succinctly present this vision in two or three sentences?)  becomes a prayer, a simple request for clarity. We will not ask our mind to solve this, but rather we will seek the guidance of our Creator, Higher Self – or whatever we choose to call God/Goddess. In my experience, this is not a one-time thing. I pray without ceasing on such matters. Each time after I pray I sink into contemplation – which is so much more refreshing than “thinking”. Using these methods, previously unimagined ways of looking at our project or vision can arise. Perhaps the vision or project itself changes, morphs into something yet undreamed.

Shaun McNiff reminds us that. The creative act is based on the paradoxical ability to stay focused on what is happening, while letting go of the need to control outcomes. It is with this understanding that we walk the fine line of goal setting, or visioning, while not holding on too tightly to our initial picture or ideas. We will want to stay open to the messages that come through once we commence the journey towards our vision. McNiff encourages us to stay away from linear, step-by-step guides and to surrender to the unexpected. I like the sound of that.

I encourage you all to stay with prayer and contemplation rather than “thinking” too much. McNiff’s explanation of contemplation reminded me of the richness of these practices. He reiterates that to imagine is to let go and goes on to say …in creative expression there is a need to stay focused on a particular thing in order to travel deeply and expansively without attachment. Establishing a focal point for creative contemplation helps a person direct energy in a particular direction and avoid becoming scattered. Jumping quickly from one thing to another and trying to do too many things at once makes our perceptions aimless and superficial. Yet we don’t want to cling to an object so tightly that we block the movements of imagination that emerge naturally from contemplation.

I look forward to entering sacred space with all the participants, where together we will explore this terrain of travelling deeply and expansively without attachment.

Namaste Jonina

Fanning the Fire: Peer Support & Sacred Circles Workshop ~ March 26, 2011

Posted By on March 7, 2011

Fanning the Fire: Peer Support & Sacred Circles
March 26, 2011 ~ 9:30 am to 4:30 pm

I will be offering a one-day workshop on peer support and sacred circles. The workshop is being presented through PeerNetBC and intended for anyone wishing to bring some of the tools found in sacred circles to their peer support group.

Please join us at the 19th annual Women’s Spirituality Celebration ~ March 11th, 12th & 13th, 2011

Posted By on March 7, 2011

I will be offering the following workshop at the 19th annual Women’s Spirituality Celebration on March 12th, 2011. This year’s theme will be Expressions of Authentic Feminine Voices and the title of my offering is Fanning the Feminine Fires: Finding your Authentic Voice through Poetry. Join me for 1 1/2 hours where we will gather to fan the feminine fires and find our authentic voice through poetry. Come play, write a poem; locate the lover, the mystic within. Poets are often mystics and mystics are often poets. Words weave pathways to inside, paint pictures of outside and settle between you and I like the gentle touches we long for. All levels welcome! Rumi was once a beginner…

Jonina Kirton is a Métis/Icelandic poet. Her writing, often contemplating the practicalities of embracing a spiritual life, has been featured in Other Tongues: Mixed-Race Women Speak Out, Pagan Edge, First Nations Drum, Toronto Quarterly, Quills Canadian Poetry Magazine, New Breed Magazine, emerge.

To register please go to the Women’s Spirituality Celebration website at www.wscelebration.com.

 

Book signing & talk by Regina Sara Ryan ~ January 27th, 2011

Posted By on January 18, 2011

Igniting the Inner Life
Book signing & talk by Regina Sara Ryan

7:00 – 9:30 pm Thursday, January 27, 2011
(music by Carol Weaver and Garry Ward at 7:00 pm & talk at 7:30)

Eternal Abundance, 1025 Commercial Drive, Vancouver BC
hosted by Jonina Kirton www.sacredcirclesbook.com

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Regina Sara Ryan’s latest book Igniting the Inner Life is directed to those with a focus on spirituality, self-understanding, yoga practice, contemplative prayer or the awakening of the heart’s knowledge, regardless of the religious tradition they follow. The inner life is the intrinsic spiritual dimension of existence. To “ignite” it is to make a pilgrimage within, to move from out there to in here in the orientation of life, work, choices and relationships.

Regina Sara Ryan, a former Roman Catholic nun, has apprenticed to a spiritual teacher of the Western Baul tradition (a tradition with Hindu, Buddhist, and Sufi roots) for the past 25 years. Since the early 1970’s she has studied contemplation and mysticism from many faith traditions, and is the author of 9 books in both wellness and spirituality, including Praying Dangerously and The Woman Awake. Regina is a freelance writer and editor, and conducts seminars and retreats in the U.S. and Europe.

Regina’s website: http://www.reginasararyan.com

Fanning the Fire: Peer Support and Sacred Circles ~ Talk at Banyen Books ~ Feb 27, 2011

Posted By on January 18, 2011

Fanning the Fire: Peer Support and Sacred Circles. What do they have in common and how can you bring the tools found in sacred circles to your peer support group? 

Circles and peer support are not new! We have been sitting around the fire, holding council, partaking in ritual since time immemorial.  Yet many peer support groups do not consciously use ritual or provide the space for spiritual principles. One obvious exception to this is the twelve step programs that have successfully used a peer support model that includes spirituality to create change in millions of lives. As facilitators or anyone looking to start a peer support group how can we use some of the tools found in the peer support  group model and sacred circle rituals to create community and effect change in our lives? Whether we are looking to create support for our writing, with manifesting or losing weight we can create or adapt ritual and sacred circles to foster a supportive community for ourselves and those who wish to join us in circle.

Jonina Kirton is a Métis/Icelandic poet/author and workshop facilitator. Her interests in spirituality, writing, and peer support group facilitation have coalesced in her work with sacred circles. With twenty five years experience in peer support, twelve step programs and spirituality she is accustomed to walking in two worlds.

Banyen Books and Sound ~ February 27, 2011 (11:30 am to 1:00 pm)

Please note this is an introductory talk and there will be a one-day workshop on the same topic  March 26, 2011 to register go to www.peernetbc.com.

New book release ~ The Madonna Code: Mysteries of the Divine Feminine Unveiled

Posted By on November 15, 2010

My dear friend Karen McGregor’s book The Madonna Code: Mysteries of the Divine Feminine Unveiled will be released on November 24th, 2010. I am so blessed to have had a small part to play in this book as her writing partner and one of her mentors around sacred circles. The book will be available on Amazon on November 24th. http://www.amazon.ca/Madonna-Code-Mysteries-Feminine-Unveiled/dp/1907498435/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1289876757&sr=1-1. In the interim you can pre-order at the Spiritual Author’s Circle website at http://spiritualauthorscircle.com/.  Namaste Jonina

Inviting Women In: Sacred Circle Workshop for Women ~ August 21, 2010

Posted By on July 11, 2010

Inviting Women In: Sacred Circle Workshop for Women

Saturday, August 21, 2010 ~ 10:30 am to 4:30 pm

Brittania Community Centre
1110 Cotton Drive, Vancouver BC

Cost $50.00 per person ~ some subsidies available ~

To register please call Jonina at 604.255.0002 or email her at jonina@sacredcirclesbook.com on or before August 13th, 2010.

Many women are looking to reclaim their spirituality through ritual. Sacred circles are a touchstone, a place of safety as we branch out to explore the personal meaning of ritual. Ritual and sacred circles bring us back to that part of us identifying with Elsa Gidlow’s words: “I know myself linked by chains of fire to every woman who has kept a hearth”. From this place we find our centre; we find the strength and the vision to create the lives we wish to create.

If you have ever dreamed of starting your own sacred circle, or using the tools found in sacred circles for your work as a facilitator this workshop may be for you. No experience is required and beginners are welcome!!

We will begin with a sacred circle, move to a potluck and end with a discussion on what makes a circle sacred and how to create safety. The topic for our sacred circle will be ritual. In preparation please do spend some time in contemplation about your experience with ritual, what is the difference between routine and ritual and how can we use ritual to uncover our dreams and to bring them to fruition.

As you contemplate ritual you may find the following poem a nice starting point.

The Jewel

There is this cave

In the air behind my body

That nobody is going to touch:

A cloister, a silence

Closing around a blossom of fire.

When I stand upright in the wind,

My bones turn to dark emeralds.

by James Wright

Please bring something to share at the potluck and an item to add to the community altar. Preferably an item that has some meaning for you and that represents your relationship to ritual. If you are new to ritual bring a found object i.e. stone, drift wood, a cedar bow or a flower from your garden. Spend some time with the object; leave it on your kitchen table, your bedside table or somewhere that you will see it often. Ask it to reveal to you its meaning.

Namaste Jonina

Workshop on Sacred Circles for Women ~ August 21, 2010

Posted By on July 9, 2010

Inviting Women In: Sacred Circle Workshop for Women

Saturday, August 21, 2010 ~ 10:30 am to 4:30 pm

Brittania Community Centre

1110 Cotton Drive, Vancouver BC, Canada

For more details on workshop and how to register click here.

Women’s Sacred Circle ~ July 20, 2010

Posted By on July 9, 2010

Tuesday, July 20th, 2010 ~ 6:45pm to 9:00 pm ~ we will gather as women seeking to reclaim ritual and experience the sacredness of the circle.  

In this circle we will explore what Jean Shinoda Bolen calls our “assignment”. Whether your assignment is raising your children or taking on major environmental issues you will need support. A women’s circle can offer a safe place to lean into your fears. 

Together let us access that tribal and ancestral knowledge found in sacred circles so that we may find our way to our assignment. Collectively we have the wisdom, the strength and the courage to show up for life and remain grounded. Come let us walk together and remind each other of this important message “If you have come to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together.”  –Ms. Lilla Watson, an Aboriginal Australian woman addressing a missionary serving in her country. 

 Newcomers welcome!  We are all in this together.

This circle will be held at Brittania Community Centre in the Family Room, 1110 Cotton Drive, Vancouver, BC.  Space is limited so you must register with me before attending. Register by email at jonina@sacredcirclesbook.com or call me at 604.255.002. Minimum donation of $5.00 suggested but if this is too much please feel free to attend anyway. Namaste Jonina

Join me at Karen McGregor’s tele-seminar ~ July 7th, 2010

Posted By on June 29, 2010

July 7, 2010 join me at Karen McGregor’s tele-seminar featuring myself and Nancy Kerner. More details to come.

Banyen Books and Sound Talk ~ May 23, 2010

Posted By on May 23, 2010

May 23, 2010 I will be giving the following  talk at Banyen Books and Sound. Circles: Women Exploring the Sacred. Many women are looking to reclaim their spirituality through ritual. Sacred circles are a touchstone, a place of safety as we branch out to explore the personal meaning of ritual. Ritual and sacred circles bring us back to that part of us identifying with Elsa Gidlow’s words: “I know myself linked by chains of fire to every woman who has kept a hearth”. Click here for details.